I heard those two enchanting words a few weeks ago from my nephew and his wonderful girlfriend. Immediately, I could imagine all the eventful things that would happen between then and the August wedding. Weddings are pretty big projects, after all. Dozens, maybe hundreds, of people make changes in their lives to come together in celebration of a new life for two people they love. Those making the plans set objectives, constraints, and timelines. They identify stakeholders and strategies, find people they can assign work to, and then they make commitments and get things done. And they do it with the sort of zeal, creativity, and commitment that is part of the most successful non-wedding projects. All this comes from the power of those first two words – “We’re engaged!”
Who really becomes engaged when an engagement happens? Is it just the future bride and groom? I think it’s everyone who will be at the wedding or who will help the couple celebrate in some way. Their collective engagement makes the whole event special Continue reading