Early in my project management career, I had the good fortune to work with Julie. Julie is a few years older than I am and had been a project manager in IT quite a bit longer than I had. She was tough. Her blue eyes would lock with yours and look straight into your soul. When our group did the Myers-Briggs personality tests, my introverted patient architect type personality contrasted with her extroverted world domination leader type. Julie would talk about big projects she had led. Her favorite term was “death march.” “That one was a death march!” she would say with wistful gleam in her eye like you get when you remember your trip to Hawaii – paradise lost.
I’m thinking that Julie wasn’t the only person I’ve known who, admired or feared or pitied by their colleagues and clients, has sacrificed greatly, sometimes unacceptably, to achieve their mission. There was Tom the budget officer at my first assignment in the Air Force many years ago. I naively admired Tom’s dedication to building the best possible base budget and keeping it up to date (in the days before computer screens) by constantly working late and weekends. I asked my friend Dave, a somewhat wiser and more experienced Lieutenant than I, how Tom did it. “Well, he really doesn’t like his wife much, so he’d rather be here” Dave replied. And there was Harvey, the Pepsi addicted computer programmer for the first system I was ever asked to manage. Harvey’s company provided the software and system support to our business. When my boss, another tough guy, wanted something done, he’d yell at me: “Get Harvey Pepsi to do it!” knowing that Harvey lived to code and wouldn’t sleep until the job was done if given free rein to make a change to the system. I always hated to ask. I wanted Harvey to have a better life. Harvey seemed to like his life the way it was.
What do we want our projects to be like? Is the best project a death march characterized by spouse avoiding hours and caffeine infused diets? Well, not for me, anyway. But, don’t we all experience these projects in our careers? Continue reading